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Click on each question to read an analysis of the answer.
 

1) If I was living a life of confidence I would be completely at ease in every situation: social, professional, physical. TRUE/FALSE

2) If I was living a life of confidence I would be living within a comfort zone where I was equal to the challenges I face. TRUE/FALSE
 

3) If I was living a life of confidence others would see that I am equal to the situations I face and would have more confidence in me to get things done. TRUE/FALSE

 

4) If I was living a life of confidence I would be able to inspire others and become a better, stronger leader. TRUE/FALSE

5) If I was living a life of confidence I would be more willing to stretch for things I don't currently have in my life: work, relationship, material things. TRUE/FALSE

6) If I was living a life of confidence I would be prepared to be more loving to myself and to others. TRUE/FALSE
 

7) If I was living a life of confidence I wouldn't still be where I am today. TRUE/FALSE

8) If I was living a life of confidence I would find it easier to form deep and romantic relationships. TRUE/FALSE
 

9) If I was living a life of confidence I would be everything I have ever wanted to be. TRUE/FALSE

 

In the same spirit of simplicity we brought to the last question, the answer to this one is probably, “False”. What have you ever wanted to be, and why? Most popular role- models, like matinee idols, have something that we don't have, and get to hang out with beautiful people that we never meet. But every tabloid newspaper is full of the scandals and problems, the problems of infidelity, drugs, rehab, and occasional premature death that such a lifestyle brings.

Until you have a measure of self-confidence that allows you to begin to live a life true to your ideals and values you will never really know what you can become, and what you are capable of. Living this way is more of a journey than a destination. If you ever arrive at the place where you are finished, all dreams fulfilled, you might as well die. No, the most confident version of yourself will never be finished, there will always be projects, dreams, ever higher aspirations. This is the life you are headed toward.

  

 

10) If I was living a life of confidence I would be rich, famous and admired by my thousands of adoring fans. TRUE/FALSE

 

There is no real right and wrong here, but your answers will have revealed a lot about your attitudes to confidence.

 

 

 

 

   

  

 

    

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